Some married couples will often complain that the relationship between the two has faded, or even has no relationship, encountering an accident, or quarreling, or a cold war, and living badly every day, and when the disappointment accumulates, it will become a reality. In the near future, otherwise, it may be necessary to take the road of divorce.
Therefore, how to maintain intimacy in married life has become the most concerned thing for couples at the moment.
The most important thing between husband and wife is the exchange of feelings, mutual understanding and acceptance, and maintaining a good relationship, that is, to do things well. Of course, there is also the foundation of love. In a marriage without love, no matter how hard you work, it is useless.
1. There is a need for communication and tolerance between husband and wife.
First, learn to tolerate and understand. No matter what role women play in the family, they must have a tolerant heart, don't be fussy, think openly, don't get angry beforehand, think carefully, analyze the reasons more, and be more considerate of each other. Who doesn't like a gentle and sensible woman?
Second, learn to communicate. When encountering difficulties or misunderstandings, don't keep it in your heart, communicate with the other party in a timely manner, if both parties are emotional, you might as well calm yourself down first, and let the other party calm down, and then express your thoughts with the other party, and finally reach a consensus , resolve conflicts and misunderstandings.
2. Learn to cherish each other
In this day and age, love is cheap fast food that takes no time and effort. No one will love someone forever and can't leave someone. So, it is very important to cherish your feelings. When you don't cherish it, then your relationship is likely to fail.
Time changes everything, there is no eternity in the world, there is no eternal love. In the face of those who are willing to accompany you, you should learn to cherish. Not all goodbyes can be reunited. Cherish the person in front of you, so that you can live without regrets. In real life, love has extraordinary meaning for each of us, but often only those who know how to cherish can harvest love.
3. Make the other person feel safe
In fact, in marriage, men are also afraid of divorce and lack of security. After marriage, men are the mainstay of the family and bear the pressures of work, family and economy. It is precisely because of having a wife that helps me settle down at home and take care of my daily life, so that I can work outside with peace of mind.
Men are also afraid of their women leaving them, and afraid of not being able to make their lives better. There will also be a lack of security. Therefore, it is recommended that both parties give each other a sense of security, and do not pay attention to the inner activities of men.
