In life, I often encounter this embarrassing situation. There is a person walking across, but I dare not look at him/her, and even want to pretend not to see it and walk over quickly. This situation is mostly the following Psychological reasons: Low self-esteem: so someone always wants to cater to others, and stop all problems on himself; In order to have a good relationship with people, you must stay in every meeting: you may become an "enemy" if you don't get it right once; Make everyone like you: the requirements for your interpersonal relationships are extremely harsh; Guilty, shy, and dare: not say hello to the other party.

But maintaining good relationships between people is of great benefit to your life, not only for yourself but also for your group. If the vast majority of people in a group want to pursue excellence, they will put it into practice.

This results in better work performance and better interpersonal relationships. Relationships between people should be genuine and natural, not deliberate, and the culture of the group can also have a big impact on how people view relationships and how they treat each other.

In order to maintain a good relationship, first of all, it is important to recognize the reality, clearly recognize the status of each person in your heart, and also confirm your own status in the other person's heart.

This is very important. Because only when the two of you personally have little difference in the weight of each other's hearts, can this kind of interpersonal relationship reach a balance point.

You must have a clear interpersonal network, distinguish the priority and the secondary, and don't hurt the people who love you because of people who don't matter.

As long as you do this, the person who loves you will always love you. This kind of relationship is precipitated through time. You don't need to pay anything deliberately.

You just need to be yourself. They love you. You will tolerate everything about you. Of course, this does not mean that you can consume their love recklessly. This kind of love is also mutual. All people in life who really love you must be cherished.

And most importantly, for the more important people in your interpersonal network, you must learn to listen, learn to self-reflect, and learn to think in empathy.

Love is mutual, friends can give you, you also need to give them feedback, don't blindly focus on yourself. Everyone in this world is equal, and no one owes you anything, so when you get along with friends, you should also pay attention to your words and deeds, pay attention to empathy, and not use verbal violence.